Talking about L.O.V.E

Hi,

Its not much, just  a bit of what ever that i write about.

Being someone that you, yourself can respect yourself. I never think of this before. Most of my lives, I always think about others, what other will say, what other will feel so on. And doing something for me will also reflect others point of view. These kinds of issues reflect me to the public. How i manage myself?


That will be the persist question for me.

Being selfish. I've been selfish once in a relation, end up in a dead end. There should be a time of selfishness and a time of work together. People now days, often think to be selfish so that you can archive all your dreams and ambition. And being together would stop them chase everything that they desire. So which one is the right way to live? Well both are important in life, sometime you need to be selfish and sometime you need to be a team.

Giving and taking are the words that people always resembles as working together. But do we really understand which part that you need to give and which part you need to take. I don’t, even thou I always using that word in an argument. I know when the time to take, but when the right time for us to give. Complicated, as it’s an algebra problem.

To understand thousands problems in love and relationship take a lot effort and patient. And believe me you would never learned it all, and you would never be an expert in love. You can be an expert in human psychology, but not love. Love is something that wide and complex. For me, it’s more complex than a human body system. And you will never learned love from knowledge, books or whatever. It has to learn by experience it, feel it, touch it, taste it, whole it, secure it, hug it. To learn an upgrade you love sense, you need to devote your heart and soul to love. Only your heart knows what love is. Every love is different in every human being. And every human being is different with the love they portray.

If you are in love, don’t jump and let yourself being swallowed in your own feeling. Always remember that you need to know where are you standing and how you want to get back if you being drag by yourself to sink. Doing that to your self is killing yourself slowly.

Most of my words are to me, so by giving an advice to myself, I shared with you guys. Maybe you learn something, but maybe you not.

So have a nice life, God bless guys.

Seif Islam Atan =)